How Contagious Is Genital Herpes Really?

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As a sexually active adult, you may have questions about genital herpes and how contagious it really is. Herpes is a virus also called HSV Herpes Simplex Virus and is divided into two types;  HSV-1 commonly known as oral herpes 1 or cold sores, which normally appears on and around the lips and HSV-2 also known as herpes genitalis, which appears on the genitals. With over 50 million people infected with the herpes simplex virus in the US alone, genital herpes is an extremely common infection. However, the stigma surrounding this STD means many people remain unaware of the facts. Educating yourself about genital herpes and its transmission is key to protecting your health and practising safe sex. This article provides an overview of how contagious genital herpes is, how it is spread, and what you can do to reduce your risk of infection or transmission to partners. While genital herpes is a lifelong infection, by understanding the facts about contagiousness and transmission, you can feel empowered to make the best choices for your sexual health and relationships.

How Genital Herpes Spreads

Genital herpes spreads through direct skin-to-skin contact during vaginal, anal or oral sex with an infected partner. The herpes simplex virus (HSV) that causes genital herpes enters the body through microscopic breaks in the skin or mucous membranes.

  1. The virus is most contagious during outbreaks of blisters and sores, as the fluid from these lesions contain a high concentration of virus particles. However, transmission can also occur when there are no visible symptoms present, through a process known as asymptomatic shedding. According to studies, around 60% of genital herpes transmissions occur during asymptomatic shedding.
  2. The risk of getting genital herpes from an infected partner during unprotected sex is around 4% for women around 10% for men per year of regular sexual activity. Condom use can lower these risks but will not eliminate them entirely, as the virus can still be transmitted by contact with areas not covered by the condom or from viral shedding before symptoms appear.
  3. Oral sex also poses a risk for HSV-1 transmission to the genitals and HSV-2 transmission to the mouth. Although less common, genital herpes can also spread from mouth to genitals and vice versa during oral sex.
  4. Genital herpes cannot spread through casual contact such as hugging, kissing or handshakes. However, you should avoid skin-to-skin contact with active blisters or sores to reduce the risk of transmission. Wash hands frequently after touching infected areas.
  5. Once infected, a person will carry the herpes simplex virus for life, since the virus becomes dormant in the nerve pathways. Genital herpes can recur frequently or rarely, but the virus will remain dormant or active in the body with periods of viral shedding where transmission is possible. Practising safe sex at all times can help prevent spreading the infection to partners.

The Risk of Transmitting Genital Herpes

As with any viral infection, genital herpes can be transmitted from an infected person to others. However, the risk of transmission varies depending on several factors.

The likelihood of spreading the herpes virus is highest during an active outbreak when visible sores are present, as the virus is most active and contagious at this stage. Engaging in any sexual activity, including skin-to-skin contact, kissing, and oral sex, can transmit the infection. Using protection like condoms or dental dams can reduce but not eliminate the risk of transmission during an outbreak. It is recommended to avoid having sex in periods of outbreaks.

Even when there are no visible symptoms, asymptomatic shedding can occur, increasing the risk of infecting a partner. Studies show that the majority of genital herpes transmissions happen during periods of asymptomatic shedding. For this reason, consistent and correct use of condoms or other protection is recommended, even when there are no symptoms.

The risk of infection is also higher if you have multiple sexual partners or engage in frequent unprotected sexual activity. Abstaining from any sexual contact during outbreaks and using protection even when asymptomatic can help lower the odds of spreading or contracting the herpes virus. Educating yourself and your partner(s) about the signs and symptoms of an outbreak, as well as the possibility of asymptomatic shedding, is key to reducing transmission risk.

With precautions taken, the likelihood of transmitting genital herpes to a partner can be decreased. However, there is always some risk of spreading or acquiring the infection through intimate physical contact with someone who has the virus. The only way to eliminate the risk completely is to abstain from all sexual activity. By understanding how contagious the herpes virus can be and taking appropriate safety measures, you can enjoy physical intimacy while protecting you and your partner’s health as much as possible.

Reducing the Risks: Using Protection and Antiviral Medication

To reduce the risks of transmitting genital herpes, it is important to take precautions like using protection during sexual activity and taking antiviral medication as prescribed.

Using Protection

Using protection like condoms, female condoms, and dental dams during any type of sexual activity can help reduce the risk of transmitting the herpes simplex virus (HSV) to a partner.

  • Condoms provide a protective barrier and have been shown to reduce transmission risks by at least 50%.
  • Female condoms and dental dams can also act as protective barriers during oral or anal sex.
  • Be sure to use protection for the duration of any sexual act, from start to finish.

Taking Antiviral Medication

For those living with frequently outbreaks of genital herpes, daily antiviral medication like valacyclovir or acyclovir can help reduce the frequency and severity of outbreaks and make transmission less likely. Antiviral medicine can have serious side-effects so it is important that you discuss your possibilities with your doctor and asses the situation. If you have outbreaks 3 or 4 times a year, there are other over the counter treatments that do not effect your whole body and are just as efficient. QUR Medical from Denmark produces a gel, which halves the duration of an outbreak and also halves the pain and discomfort. This gel is very effective, can be used without restrictions and can be bought online. But some people, luckily only few, are having outbreaks 3 to 4 times in a month and in these cases antiviral medication should be considered.

  • Antiviral medication works by interfering with the replication of the HSV to help suppress it.
  • When taken daily, antiviral medication can reduce the risk of transmission to partners by up to 50% by decreasing the frequency and severity of outbreaks.
  • If an outbreak does occur, starting a course of antiviral medication as early as possible can help shorten its duration and promote faster healing of any sores.

By using these risk reduction methods together, the chances of transmitting genital herpes to a partner can be decreased substantially. However, there is still always a small risk of transmission even when taking precautions since the herpes virus can shed even without visible symptoms. The only way to eliminate risks completely is to abstain from all sexual activity. But with open communication about health status with partners, protection, medication, and avoiding contact during outbreaks, genital herpes does not have to be an inevitable consequence of intimacy.

Genital Herpes Outbreaks: When Is It Most Contagious?

Genital herpes outbreaks with visible blisters or sores are when the virus is most contagious. In these periods the virus is actively replicating and shedding, meaning it can be transmitted to a sexual partner more easily.

Primary Outbreaks

When a person is first infected with the herpes simplex virus (HSV), they will experience a primary outbreak within 2 to 20 days after exposure. This initial outbreak is often the most severe, lasting 2 to 4 weeks, and the virus is highly contagious during this time. Antiviral medication or QUR Herpes Gel can help speed healing and reduce viral shedding, but you should avoid any sexual contact until the outbreak has completely healed to prevent infecting a partner.

Recurrent Outbreaks

After the primary outbreak, the virus becomes dormant for periods of time. Recurrent outbreaks, when the virus reactivates and causes new sores, tend to be less severe and shorter in duration. However, the virus can still be transmitted during recurrent outbreaks, even when there are no visible symptoms or sores.

Using condoms or dental dams during sex can also help lower the risk of transmission to partners.

Asymptomatic Viral Shedding

Unfortunately, even without any symptoms, the herpes virus can become active and spread from skin surfaces like the genitals, anus or mouth. This is known as asymptomatic viral shedding. Studies show that the risk of transmission from an asymptomatic carrier may be as high as 10% per year. Daily antiviral medication has been shown to greatly reduce asymptomatic shedding and lower the chances of passing the infection to a partner when no symptoms are present.

In summary, genital herpes is most contagious during outbreaks, especially primary outbreaks, but asymptomatic viral shedding can also transmit the virus even without symptoms. Taking precautions like antiviral medication, condom use, and avoiding sexual contact during outbreaks can help prevent spreading the infection to intimate partners. Through open communication and mutual understanding, people with herpes can enjoy safe and healthy sexual relationships.

FAQ: Common Questions About Genital Herpes Contagiousness

Genital herpes is a sexually transmitted infection caused by the herpes simplex virus (HSV). Herpes can be categorized into two types: HSV-1, commonly known as oral herpes or cold sores, and HSV-2, which primarily leads to genital herpes. Both HSV-1 and HSV-2 are lifelong infections with no cure, but there are over the counter treatments and medications prescribed by your doctor, that helps control symptoms and reduce outbreaks.

How is HSV-2 transmitted?

HSV-2 is usually transmitted through direct skin-to-skin contact during vaginal, anal, and oral sex with an infected partner. The virus enters the body through tiny breaks in the skin or mucous membranes. HSV-2 does not spread through casual contact like hugging, kissing, or sharing objects.

Can HSV-2 be transmitted even without symptoms?

Yes. HSV-2 can spread from an infected partner even when there are no visible sores or symptoms present. This is known as asymptomatic shedding. Although the risk of transmission is highest during an outbreak, asymptomatic shedding occurs intermittently in between outbreaks. Antiviral medication can help reduce the risk of asymptomatic shedding and transmission.

If I already have HSV-1, can I get HSV-2?

Infection with HSV-1 may provide some protection against HSV-2 infection, but it does not prevent it entirely. It is still possible to contract HSV-2 even if you already have HSV-1. The strains are closely related but different enough that infection with one does not provide full immunity against the other.

  • Practise safe sex using condoms and dental dams to reduce the risk of transmission.
  • Limit the number of sexual partners.
  • Consider taking daily antiviral medication if you have very frequent outbreaks.
  • Disclose your HSV-2 status to new partners before engaging in sexual activity.

With precautions and treatment, the spread of genital herpes can be managed. But the key is awareness, education and open communication with your partners.


While genital herpes is an incurable STI, it is less contagious than commonly believed. By understanding how it spreads and taking precautions like using protection, limiting outbreaks, and informing partners, you can enjoy an active sex life while minimising the risk of transmission. Though the stigma surrounding herpes persists, the facts show it is a manageable condition that does not make you any less deserving of intimacy and respect. Knowledge is power, so continue learning and talking with your doctor to get the facts and feel empowered in making the choices that are right for your situation.